How To Get The Girl- Persistence Vs Neediness , Get The Balance Right.

Published: 15th November 2009
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How To Get The Girl- Persistence Vs Neediness , Get The Balance Right.

Every girl likes to know that she's being pursued. That's why she gets a tiny thrill out of over-the-top attempts by guys to woo her, even if she really has no interest in the guy himself, and it's also the reason why very often these attempts can actually create that kind of interest!

Needless to say, mastering this particular quality is going to be invaluable, but there's something you need to watch out for: Persistence, when taken too far, can come off as being 'needy', which is definitely something that you want to avoid. Neediness is not appealing to any woman, and is a sign of low self confidence that can actually wreck any chances you had of getting her in the first place.

So the trick is to balance the two, and that really is easier said than done.

One of the most common areas in which people go wrong is with phone calls. Some guys end up calling a girl endlessly in an attempt to set up a date. Occasionally, they rationalize it seeing as if a girl said, "Oh, I'm not free tonight," that could mean that she might be free the next night, or the next... or the next.

Basically, there's one thing that you need to understand - when it comes to dating, it's all about making a move. You make a move, and then the ball is in her court. If you keep trying to make moves while she is blatantly not making any, then you're resigning yourself to being perceived of as needy, and at that point it's pretty much game over.

Be sure to keep this at the forefront of your mind while you're dating, it could make or break your chances!

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